Phoebe, I felt your nudge. Actually it's not me who needed the nudge. It's the man. As I've expected, I forsee that he will forget about the whole thing and also as expected, when reminded, he'll claim that he didn't forget and he intend to reply me.
Anyway I've got no intention to remind him but my dear friend Jessie, decided to take the liberty to remind him during one of our gathering on Saturday 28 April.
So here's the result : I'll go for my studies.
Need I say more?
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*HUGS* Hope you are both happy with the decision. I am a little sad to learn that though... Would love to see 'more of you' though. Dec! Give your MaMa a hug for me!
Oh?! We went to MIL's place last saturday and she says it's good to have another sibling for them (ethyl and Declan)so that they can have company.
We may also postpone our plan for number 2...but...i need approval from my boss before i can decide to postpone...
He's against the idea of me furthering my studies now...I really have no idea why...
Haha, Dr Seah...with a PhD at the back!
Seems like the twins have differing thoughts... :/ While its good to have more kids, it is also noteworthy that when we are raising a only child, we can really get to enjoy all of him/her and not miss out on any of their milestones. For me, with two in tow now, its really tough to be able to focus on one and not neglecting the other.
Anyhow, there is no good time to have children, even juggling with further studies. We can and will always get by. Studies will only be a phase. Parenthood is for a lifetime ;)
Hmm...so the decision is final?
Never mind, still can try for second one after your studies?? ;p
I don't think I can say that I am happy with the decision. A check with the dad told me that he didn't want a 2nd child simply because he's afraid that he can't handle the kid....
Frankly, the decision and the reason given don't give me any joy at all...
But it takes 2 hands to clap so... that's it!
Sometimes i think that men are so useless! I am not pin pointing at anyone but i do have a character at home which is like that lol... Troy is SOOOOOO scared about having a second child because Tim was really hard to take care of when he was a newborn... or perhaps we were really hopeless parents from the start. Not forgetting we have no help at all and i was finishing off my degree, having exams and all.
So when i told him i am expecting Shanice, i had this point blank face. Not very encouraging at all. Thankfully it is a girl- Troy wanted a girl... else he would have black face everyday.
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